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Working with narcissists can feel like walking through a minefield. But it’s the type of minefield where you’re guaranteed to step on a mine – almost daily. In this episode, Jeff unpacks how to manage the narcissist’s dynamic with clarity and grace, so you maintain what’s left of your sanity.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

🔹 Why narcissists often rise to leadership roles—and why that can backfire on teams.

🔹 How to set firm boundaries and stay grounded under the narcissist’s behavior.

🔹 Practical strategies for survival: from strategic praise to exit planning, depending on your situation.

Leading in the narcissist’s terrain isn’t about winning their approval—it’s about winning with your integrity intact.

🎧 Press play for a smarter way to lead under pressure.


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Show Notes

[00:00] Introduction

[00:18] Narcissism

[01:40] The Three Types of Narcissists

[05:01] The Most Annoying Thing About Narcissists

[06:10] You Can’t Change Narcissists, But You Can Change How You Respond

[08:14] The Bright Side Of Working With Narcissists

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